While the dog is often blamed, there are two sides to every story when it comes to bite cases. Many children do not learn how to properly handle a dog. Instead, the dog is expected to simply "take" the treatment the child is given, including tail pulling, hard petting, and strangling hugs. Here we share 10 things your kids should know about dogs.
Dogs have feelings too
Respecting their feelings by giving them choices is the best way to create lasting friendships. So if you want to meet a dog, invite him over by bending over and patting your leg. When the dog comes to you, you can give it a small pat under the chin.
Dogs love children they can trust
Show dogs that they can count on them to only do things they enjoy. If you've invited a dog and he doesn't come, leave him alone! He may only feel comfortable around people he knows well. By showing him that you respect his choices, he knows you can be trusted and is more likely to seek affection from you when he's ready.
Dogs can talk
Yes. It's true. Dogs can talk, but not with words, they use their bodies. Only invite dogs whose bodies are relaxed. Look at their eyes and ears for clues about how they are feeling.
Dogs are not stuffed animals
Most dogs are uncomfortable with people reaching over their heads and feel trapped by hugs and kisses. So if you want to show your love by squeezing someone hard, make sure it's a human friend or a cuddly dog.
Dogs love to be stroked gently
Save the rough pats for your friends on the field! If you want to pet a dog, be super gentle, always use one hand so you are not tempted to turn that dog into a hug.
Dogs don't like bossy kids
No one wants a bossy friend, especially one who ruins all their fun! So if your dog does something really naughty, call your parents and let them handle it so you can continue to be the cute friend. (Parents, this is also for their safety. Many dogs may protect themselves from children or may not let go, resulting in an inappropriate drag game.)
If it's on the floor, it belongs to the dog
It's "what you think you can keep" in the dog world. So if you left your shoes on the floor, your dog sees them as a game. Instead of taking away the shoe he thinks is his, call your parents and have them exchange the shoe for something your dog thinks is even better (but can have), such as a tasty treat.
Dogs like other excuses
If you accidentally step on your dog or scare him, you may be tempted to give him a hug to say you're sorry. But wait! Dogs don't really like cuddles. Instead, show your dog that you're sorry in a way he's sure to like by tossing a handful of treats on the floor for him to gobble them up. Apologies accepted!
Dogs love children who know when to stay and when to walk away
Just like humans, dogs have times when they want to play and times when they want to be left alone. Show all dogs you know that you fully understand and walk away if they are tethered, crated, eating, chewing or resting.
Dogs love to play!
If you're one of the kids who knows how to respect dogs, then you're just the kind of kid that dogs want to let loose and play with too. Throw a ball for your dog, hide treats in the kitchen, or create an obstacle course for him to make his way through. Playing games that your dog enjoys is a safe way to make friends for life.
